I recently learned a new word in Spanish. It’s “desahógate.” I heard it used at a men’s meeting at church, but I had no clue what it meant. So I looked it up.

The infinitive is “desahogar.” It means “to vent.”

In English, we understand the need to vent, to get something off your chest. But a funny thought came to mind as I pondered “vent.” It was a picture of a little, white metal grate. An actual vent. How innocuous. How inconsequential. But this? This is essential.

But allow me to deconstruct the Spanish word desahogar like this: des- + ahogar.

Des” is like the English “un” - like undo, untie, unbind.

Ahogar” is to drown.

Have you ever felt like you’re drowning?

Venting can be a lifesaver! Un-drown. Or “get out what’s drowning you.” It’s a powerful word picture!

On a long enough timeline, everyone needs a coach. We need someone outside of our context we can vent to. Someone who understands us and helps us vent in the healthiest ways. Someone who can help us create a path toward improving things so we don’t end up here a year from now. Venting again.

You can quickly sign up for a first coaching session at https://www.adlibmusic.com/first-step.


-Dave Helmuth
(purchase my book, "Worship Fertilizer: (the first hundred)" HERE)

Vent (Nº 390)

Dave Helmuth

Out-of-the-box, relational, and energizing, I’m the founder that leads Ad Lib Music and a catalyst that builds connections that strengthen the Church.

https://adlibmusic.com
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